Women Are Changing the World - And Men Are Losing

Here’s a plot twist for you: women are changing the world, and men… well, some of them are losing it spectacularly. Instead of self-reflecting, going to therapy, or learning how to evolve, a handful of men are doubling down on the nastiest parts of patriarchy: killing and raping women, demanding submissive wives, and somehow using “girls’ girl” as an insult. LOL. Yes, imagine treating women supporting each other as a bad thing.

Men Treat Relationships Like a Nuisance

Some men act as if their female partner exists solely to:

• Clean up after him

• Cook his dinners

• Keep his laundry sorted

• Make sure the fridge is full

• Pay bills 50/50 (and somehow calculate that down to the penny!)

• Handle finances & the social calendar

…and to top it all off, look like a model 24/7 while fulfilling his two-minute, self-serving fantasies. All while she’s doing what exactly? Paying half the bills and somehow being expected to perform emotional acrobatics on top of that?

It’s ironic, isn’t it? Men know exactly how to behave at work. They know if they don’t show up, work hard, keep their workspace in order, and pull their weight, they could be fired. They know the rules. They know effort equals reward. They understand consequences.

Yet somehow, they expect to put zero effort into a relationship and are shocked - SHOCKED - when their partner isn’t happy. How does that make sense to anyone?

Full-Blown Tantrums… And Somehow It’s Her Fault

When women speak up about these double standards, it’s like society collectively loses its mind. Some men throw tantrums, destroy houses, go on rampages, sometimes escalate to murder. And somehow - according to the logic of toxic patriarchy - it’s still the woman’s fault. She’s unreasonable. She’s overreacting. She’s the problem.

This is the same world where violent men who lie, manipulate, abuse, and exploit are defended by others - sometimes even by other women. And women daring to speak out against that? We’re the ones treated like troublemakers.

Women Are Rising

Here’s the truth: women are rising, creating communities, holding space for each other, and changing the world. Feminist spaces, social movements, female-led businesses, and even everyday support systems are rewriting the rules.

Men losing their grip on control is inevitable. Patriarchy is wobbling. And the more men try to cling to these ridiculous, outdated notions of dominance, the more obvious it becomes that we are done tolerating it.

Women are standing up. Speaking out. Demanding better. And we’re not asking permission.

The Dope Soul Village Call

At Dope Soul Village, we fight back with badass feminist clothing, feminist hoodies, feminist sweaters, and adaptive nightwear. We call out misogyny. We name abuse. We support women to reclaim their space and their power.

Because the world doesn’t have to make sense - it just has to change. And women? We’re leading the charge.

The Truth

To all the men throwing tantrums, destroying houses, or blaming women for your own failings: this is not our problem. Women will continue building, speaking, creating, and standing together. And those of us who dare to call out abusive behaviour? We’re the ones shaping the world.

So here’s a Big J for the universe: this world makes no sense. But we do.