Posted by Sam Taylor
on November 10, 2025
Ladies, it’s time to put on your detective hats and grab your magnifying glasses—because at Red Flag University, we study men like crime scene investigators. Every word, every action, every tiny detail is evidence, and your degree? A PhD in NOT settling.
We’ve all been there: he says something that sounds sweet at first, but your gut immediately whispers: “Hold up… red flag.” Let’s break it down.
Take this classic example:
“I love ambitious women, but my ex is crazy…”
Yep, you guessed it. RED FLAG. 🚩
But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Here are five more red flags to keep on your radar:
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Gaslighting Galore – He constantly makes you question your reality or memory. You know what happened—don’t let him rewrite history.
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Zero Accountability – He never apologises and always blames others, including you, for any issues in the relationship.
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Secretive Behaviour – If he’s overly protective of his phone, avoids introducing you to friends/family, or seems to have mysterious “business trips,” take note.
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Love Bombing, Then Withdrawing – He showers you with affection and attention initially… then suddenly disappears or becomes cold when you get close.
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Disrespect Towards Boundaries – He dismisses your needs, belittles your feelings, or pressures you to move faster than you’re comfortable with.
At Red Flag University, we teach you to spot these warning signs early, trust your instincts, and graduate with honours in self-respect. Because settling isn’t an option, and your time is valuable.
So, grab your coffee, open your notebook, and let’s study this subject seriously. Because the only degree worth earning is one where you walk away from toxicity—and straight into your power.
