Posted by Sam Patrick
on April 30, 2025
Let me take you down the rabbit hole of why ‘Pick Me’ women can be so dangerous, and how one of them tried to ruin my life for no other reason than seeking validation from men. Trust me, this is not one of those lighthearted ‘Oh, she's a bit annoying’ stories. This is about power, manipulation, and the lengths some women will go to gain male approval. The worst part? They do this without any real understanding of the harm they cause, all while pretending they’re doing everyone else a favour. Cue eye-roll.
Meet Chloe Masters: The ‘Pick Me’ Poster Girl
Let me set the scene. I had a neighbour called Chloe Masters, a woman married to Dom Masters, a soldier with 1 PWRR. Now, what I didn’t know at the time (because why would I?) was that Chloe wasn’t just my neighbour – she was also the sort of woman who would walk into a coffee morning group and announce to everyone that I was abusive towards my husband. She didn’t even know me, but apparently that wasn’t a good enough reason to not start some gossip. Her goal? To paint me as some terrible, abusive wife who needed to be reported.
So there I was, minding my own business, when I got a phone call from social services. It was an odd call because at first, the social worker was talking to me like I was the one being abused. Then, as the conversation unfolded, it turned out she meant my husband. I automatically thought, ‘Oh, here we go again with 1 PWRR and their never-ending drama.’ This, of course, triggered a flashback to 2021 when the OC, Graeme King, spread a rumour that I was abusing my husband. Let’s just say 1 PWRR had a knack for making up stories that got the wheels of social services rolling.
But then, the social worker repeated word for word what OC Graeme King had said to her in 2021. I thought, ‘Okay, this is 1 PWRR yet again.’ But then came the bombshell – my husband wasn’t going to court for a summary appeal hearing. That’s when the lightbulb went off. This wasn’t about my husband; this was about the women behind the scenes, playing puppet masters from the shadows.
The Difference Between Court Martial and Summary Appeal Hearing
So, for those who don’t know, there’s a big difference between a soldier going to court martial and one going to a summary appeal hearing. A court martial is a serious criminal charge, whereas a summary appeal hearing is challenging a charge. The problem here was that the very thing I had endured for so long – the constant bullying – was turning into something far more dangerous for my husband.
My husband, was a victim of abuse from the regiment. In 2021, he was being punished for taking me shopping while I was heavily pregnant and suffering from SPD (symphysis pubis dysfunction, a painful condition). I was treated like garbage by the system. They didn’t care about my pregnancy. I’m still convinced they wanted me to miscarry. The regiment treated me like I was some kind of liability because, heaven forbid, a woman actually needed basic maternity care.
And yet, there was Chloe Masters – a woman who I thought had no stake in any of this – making things worse by spreading lies and calling social services on me. She was using the very same bullying tactics that I had suffered under for years. But why? Why would she do this? Simple: validation. Chloe was a ‘Pick Me’ woman, and she’d do anything to gain approval from the men around her, even if it meant making someone else’s life hell. She couldn’t stand the idea of a woman like me having any power, so she decided to tear me down.
The Downward Spiral of Lies
The truth came out eventually. She admitted it without a second thought, digging herself into a hole that would’ve been hard to climb out of – if she wasn’t so intent on being the kind of woman who could get away with anything. Of course, Chloe’s best mate, Jasmine Mundy, was all too happy to back her up. Jasmine is the classic ‘I’m just here to look out for myself’ type of woman. The kind of woman who doesn’t care who she has to step on as long as she stays in the good graces of the men who matter.
What followed was a string of lies, manipulations, and the ultimate betrayal. Turns out Chloe wasn’t just a bit of a liar – she was downright dangerous. But what made it worse was how deep the corruption ran in the system. Chloe’s husband, Dom Masters, had been known for his wandering eye, and I can’t help but think that Chloe’s actions were partially about keeping him in line. By the way, how’s that whole ‘he’s a cheat’ thing working out for you, Chloe?
The Pain of Enduring Abuse
Now, don’t get me wrong – I know Chloe was going through her own struggles. She was being abused by her husband too, but that didn’t give her the right to ruin my life. Being called a ‘lazy pig’ and enduring the kind of verbal abuse that she did didn’t make her a hero, it made her a victim who thought dragging someone else down would somehow make her life better. But here’s the thing: I’ve been through the wringer. I’ve been the woman being abused, bullied, and mistreated for years. Four years, to be exact, while I endured it at the hands of my abusive ex-husband, all under the watch of the military’s corrupt regime. And while I was being abused, I decided to turn my pain into something positive. I founded Dope Soul Village, a platform that empowers women, gives them a voice, and makes sure that no woman is left behind.
Dope Soul Village: Turning Pain Into Power
You see, at Dope Soul Village, we’re all about turning negativity into empowerment. Instead of succumbing to the toxicity of women like Chloe, we stand tall and make a difference. We provide a platform for badass feminist clothing, including feminist hoodies, feminist t-shirts, and feminist sweatshirts, to support women who have had enough. We’re not just about selling clothes; we’re about selling empowerment. Whether you’re looking for witchy clothing, black-on-black attire, or something to show off your strength, Dope Soul Village has got you covered. We don’t just create clothing; we create a movement.
Every purchase made at Dope Soul Village is a step towards fighting back against the very people who try to tear us down. We donate a portion of our profits to support women who have been through the kinds of hells I’ve endured, offering them the chance to rebuild and thrive. We’re not just a brand; we’re a community. A community that stands strong in the face of adversity, no matter how many ‘Pick Me’ women try to bring us down.
The Real Danger of ‘Pick Me’ Women
So, why are ‘Pick Me’ women like Chloe so dangerous? Because they’ve learned that the way to gain validation isn’t through kindness or merit; it’s through tearing other women down. They find the most vulnerable, the most empowered, and the most confident women, and they target them. They think that by destroying someone else’s life, they can make theirs better. But here’s the truth: all they’re doing is showing their own weaknesses, and eventually, the truth always comes out.
Women don’t need to fear men alone. We need to fear the women who think that being ‘one of the boys’ means destroying other women in the process. But you know what? We’re stronger than that. We will keep speaking up. We will keep fighting. And we will keep making things better.
Chloe Masters and women like her may have their fleeting moments of ‘winning,’ but in the long run, they will only find themselves alone – just like their husbands, who can’t seem to keep their dicks where they belong.
Conclusion: Keep Fighting for Justice
To Chloe and her cronies, I say this: keep trying to tear me down. Keep trying to hurt others. You’ll only show the world how weak you really are. I’ll keep pushing forward, building Dope Soul Village, empowering women, and never letting anyone get away with what’s been done. Justice doesn’t come quickly, but it does come. And one day, you’ll be held accountable for your actions – just like everyone else.
So, keep an eye out, Chloe. Justice is coming for you.
